Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell

Is masturbation okay in a Christian marriage? It's a common question, but one many couples are afraid to ask—and few people answer directly.

In this episode, Dan offers two practical tests to help you and your spouse decide what is right for your marriage.

He also explores the difference between masturbation, lust, and fantasy; potential benefits for intimacy an...

When one spouse wants sex more than the other, both partners can end up feeling hurt—the higher-desire spouse feels rejected, while the lower-desire spouse feels pressured or inadequate.

In this episode, sex therapist Dr. Jennifer Litner explains what actually helps couples navi...

For years, I asked my wife to initiate sex more often because I wanted to feel chosen and desired. Instead, my requests created pressure, scorekeeping, and a cycle that made genuine desire even harder.

In this episode, I explain why I stopped asking, what I misunderstood about responsive desire, and how shifting from initiating sex to initiating connection transformed ...

When work, kids, meals, schedules, and the never-ending mental checklist take everything you have, intimacy can start to feel like one more task. Amy Nesbit knows that tension firsthand.

After nearly 20 years as a working professional—including time at Apple—she has learned how making the invisible load visible, asking for help before resentment builds, and protecting ...

Most couples think they know what's hurting their marriage.

Poor communication. Different sex drives. Parenting disagreements. Financial stress. Growing apart.

That's exactly what one couple thought, too.

After 18 years of marriage, they came to Dan convinced they knew what needed fixing. But as they peeled back the layers, they uncovered a deeper problem...